For those who want to heal and clear self, past and future generations – through self and family karma healing.
When I was four years old, my Dad would entertain me with The Blue Feather Trick. As a magic trick, it wasn’t particularly tricky; in fact, it consisted solely of hiding a blue feather in the folds of a newspaper, mumbling a few words, saying abracadabra, waving his hands and, and poof! the feather would disappear.
I watched him like a hawk–or as much of a “hawk” as my four-year-old self could muster–but the sleight of hand worked every time.
How’d you do that? I’d ask spellbound, as the feather would reappear seconds later in some unlikely spot: under the sofa cushions, even grasped from my ear!
My dad’s magic trick became a family favorite after dinner, as my mother washed dishes and my baby brother gurgled from his high chair. Looking back, I see that it wasn’t the trick that made this time special. What was important was that it was something we experienced together, as family, during those years we lived as soul cluster and orbited around each other.
For just a moment, think about your family relationships – and what they taught you to be. As a child, we are sponges. Our families are the most impactful sources of our core beliefs and the beliefs we form about ourselves.
But sometimes we are raised by people with their own unresolved trauma. They may have their own self worth issues and core beliefs that they unintentionally project onto their children. All of this is typically unconscious – because we repeat what we don’t heal. But every family–including mine–also has its challenges, its secrets, its failings, its shadows.
The truth is, whatever we do not heal, we repeat with the next generation. And the next. And the next. Maybe you’re caught up in the cycle -but you don’t know how in the world to stop the cycle from continuing. We didn’t get to the place we are now overnight. From the stories we’ve been told since birth – to the stories we play on continuous loops inside our heads…all of them create our present reality.
Remember, everything is energy. We constantly send out & receive energy each moment of our existence – and we don’t ever do it alone.
Every family has karma that includes the issues of parents, siblings, relatives, cultural Karma and ancestors of generations past..
It runs in the family – and here are the ways it most commonly shows up:
There is usually ONE person, a loner – the person who doesn’t fit into the scenario, go against the flow & against the grain -usually that person is the one destined to heal the family karma. It may be the black sheep or the person everyone considers ‘weird’ or ‘different’ – and the fact is, they ARE different.
.Because their destiny is to heal.
I am one of those people. I was destined to heal my family’s karma, and now I facilitate it for others. If you feel it deep in your gut as you’re reading this, a pull, a longing, or an urging -you are the one.
You are the healer.
Most people who are destined karma healers know it subconsciously from birth, but may not step into it for years. You may feel like the whole world is on your shoulders – like a scapegoat – or a black sheep..
Are you the destined one? If you feel the pull, your next step is to DM me – I’ll outline the training and if it’s a fit for you. Don’t wait. Spots are filling quickly..
YOU are in charge of your destiny and you can experience more of anything in life that you want.
Make the decision to heal – and in turn, all generations after you won’t carry the baggage of low self-love you carry now. Together, let’s tear up that ticket to the guilt, shame, and blame train for good.
I combine visual arts with neuro-linguistic programming (NLP) inspired techniques and spirituality and the result is a ‘portal’ of sorts. It’s a magical portal where you open yourself to infinite possibility – and in that space, ANYTHING is possible. Healing is natural. And through this eight-week group program, you will reveal the shadows, reframe your mind, and rewriting the rules of your life.
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Phase 1/ What You Think You Know Has Got To GO: Self-Awareness in FIRE - Click Here
May we all be brave enough to allow [self] love to transform us forever. ~Elizabeth Gilbert
In Phase 1, we will work extensively with the element of FIRE. Fire burns away the facade so we can begin to see ourselves clearly. In Phase 1, we will:
Experience the fire of transformation: Reignite the fire of your dreams.
Clear anger/fear/anxiety/guilt/shame using NLP inspired techniques
What are my values? (Value elicitation) Explore your individual value systems and beliefs: Are they lining up with how you’re living your life? If not, “Houston, we have a problem!” We will make crystal clear your values and learn to line them up with every area of your life.
Explore self-awareness of our thoughts: Are these mine? Or are these stories that I have written over time that someone else told me or implied to me? Why do I think this way? Are they our own voices, or someone else’s? Family or origin, community, school, culture, group, friend?
Dismantle socialization and conditioning: The basics of letting go of the need for external validation
Efficacy vs Worth (self-esteem); The six pillars of self-esteem: practical/personal
Freedom vs. Expectation – Dynamic vs. Static
Boundaries: Beginning to find your voice
SOUL GRAFFITI: You’ll experience NEWfound freedom of letting go of perfectionism, should’s, could’s, and have to’s – by fully embracing my ‘Soul Graffiti’ easy layered painting techniques! The inner portal of self will open and you will be amazed at what emerges!
Who Am I Being? How Am I Showing Up?
In Phase 2, we build upon the self-awareness of Phase 1. The element of air is dynamic, moving, and fans the fire of transformation to create NEW thoughts, new pathways, and more of who you authentically are.
We will deep dive into Anger : Blame vs responsibility
Fear and Fears inventory elicitations
We will re-frame and de-frame fight-or-flight mechanisms
Dissolving Guilt vs. Shame
Thought pattern interrupts using NLP
Telling the truth; hearing the truth and Chain of Meaning Elicitations that will change the way you think and the stories you tell yourself
Chakra Healing – Sutras, Colors, and Vibrations
Flexible vs permeable vs hard boundaries.
The second layer of SOUL GRAFFITI will continue to open up your intuitive portal of self – the part of you that is infinite possibility!
Grounding and Mindfulness
Responding vs, Reacing
Respect: ALL the things
Admitting your Desires (to yourself)
Articulating your Desires (to yourself and others)
Healthy Communication – Agreements and aligning values
Expressing your Desires (to others) and letting go of the need to control the outcome
Trusting in yourself, connecting to Divine Flow
Vulnerability and Forgiveness – the highest forms of self-love
3 phases of gratitude – and making space to invite beautiful things into your life
The Power in establishing a Ho’oponopono Practice
Concrete steps toward your dreams – manifesting basic to advanced
Fully step into Self / Spirit: Flow, Trust..
Manifest: How to CONTINUE to stand in and wield your creative power especially after our time together
Your sacred daily practice
Open yourself up to the infinite possibility that is YOU!
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